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Heartbroken man hands out Christmas cards to Newtown kids

Abbas Alavi knew he had to do something for the children. Not the slain children who lost their lives in a hail of gun fire Friday morning inside Sandy Hook Elementary School. Those children were given up to God, said Alavi, a devout Muslim.

So, before Alavi left his Danbury home on Saturday morning ,he grabbed a handful of Christmas cards lying around his home, stuffed them with crisp $5 bills, and headed to Saint Rose of Lima Church, the site of a massive prayer vigil the night before and a place of solace for many.

The Catholic parish drew Alavi, even though he is a Muslim.  He said the horrific shootings that claimed the lives of more than two dozen people, 20 of them children, left him grief-stricken. The tragedy was so sad that "even a stone could cry," he said.

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Abbas Alavi Credit: HartfordFAVS photo by Ann Marie Somma

After praying in the sanctuary, Alavi waited outside the church and when he saw a small child emerge or enter from the church, he handed them a card and offered them a Merry Christmas.  Alavi was selective with his gifts, making sure he chose a child the same age as one of those killed. Maybe he was thinking of  6-year-old Ana Marquez-Greene, one of 12 girls and eight boys shot inside the classroom. Ana's brother was also a student at the school. He escaped Adam Lanza, the shooter's rage.  Or maybe Alavi chose a little boy because he was just like victim, 6-year-old  Jesse Lewis, who one news account said he liked to eat at Newtown's Misty Vale Deli where he always ordered his " favorite breakfast sandwich—sausage, egg, and cheese—and a hot chocolate."

"I wanted to do something nice. It makes me feel better," said Alavi, 62, who does not have children of his own.

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Abbas Alavi hands out Christmas cards in front of Saint Rose of Lima church Credit: HartfordFAVS photo by Ann Marie Somma

The gesture was not lost on the parents whose children accepted Alavi gift. Many families had gone to the church to prayer or light a candle at the many memorials set up on the church grounds to remember the children who died.

Alavi gave Sandra Hankins' daughter a card. The mother was not surprised by Alavi's goodness. She said the tight-knit community of Sandy Hook had come together since the shootings, and will continue to be a source of healing for the days, months and years to come.

"People have been amazing. And now this man hands my child a Christmas card," she said.

Topics: Politics, Law, Crime & Court
Beliefs: Interfaith
Tags: abbas alvai, saint rose of lima church, sandy hook elementary school

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Comments

  1. Amazing example of humanity. Bless him.

  2. Indeed a wonderful example of humanity - sometimes it seems to take terribly inhumane acts to pull us together.

  3. Very proud of have Mr. Abbas as our neighbor and friend, really generous and genuine person

  4. Great job, no matter what your religion is, our feelings are the same.

  5. Thank u so much for a wonderful job that you have done. That is the one great example.

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